2+1 = 3..???

Winning formulae made simple, Pay close attention.

IF WINNING = 3,

      2+1 = 3

to know what is 2 and what is 1,You’ll have to read through this lengthy blog….

Exam time , My mind speaks when i open my book ….”what will be Sriram reading now, Aravind would have finished second chapter. I’m going to flunk tomorrow, I have not read even half of what Naveen has prepared…:-(“.

Sriram’s without a book “Mani must have finished the 4 chapters by now…:-(”

Mani fighting in photo copier shop to have his book xeroxed first ” Aravind will be revising now…:-( ”

Aravind and Naveen smoking in a shop and talking about me “that guy will say he has not prepared but he will clear tomorrow’s exam for sure..”

How does Sriram,Aravind,Naveen or my preparation influence anyone else performance. What Sriram and Aravind do is not going to be the 16 marks question, We know that every second we think about someone else  life, we waste a second to think about our own life, Yet we waste a major part of life thinking about others and ultimately end up losing the game, even before it is played. . We constantly let others influence our aims and performance .

In nature will a cat try to hunt a deer just because it sees a lion hunting a deer in discovery channel..?  if it all it tries to hunt one and fails will we say that, “the cat had failed to achieve its goal”.? “Won’t we say that it was one stupid cat, with one stupid aim” Actually cats don’t try hunting deers they are not that stupid, Lions hunt deers because nature forces them to ,Fact is if Lions stop hunting deers, they die..!. but we humans always try to aim for the lions role when we are just programmed to be cats. “Your neighbour gets a car, you are forced to get one. Your neighbour clears MBBS entrance and naturally your burdened to clear the same” When everyone around you plays this ugly game of cat and lion., there is a definite advantage in looking into your heart’s mirror and realise that “Yes I’m a cat and I cannot hunt a deer, but I can definitely hunt a mouse. ”

Every one wants to successful, but being successful is one thing and being successful just like your neghbour is another. It’s like walking with a 8 size shoe while your foot is size 10.Yet everyone of us walk , we try to adjust, we even try to give excuses for the pain we suffer, but do we really get there? do we really achieve? What is the point in walking if your shoes are not of your size? Neither do you enjoy your walk nor do you reach your destination. And what does the world call you finally…? A loser, Everyone thinks that you gave up at the wrong time. Yes the world calls you so,but actually you are One Stupid cat with one stupid aim

Always try to have goals which fit your size, when you have found the right goal you don’t feel the pain and you don’t have to adjust for anyone or anything.  This will be my 2.

Everyone can win, but only few enjoy the process of waiting and preparing hard for a win. They wait like hunter completely camouflaged, waiting till the time is ripe, pouncing when the time is absoutely perfect.

Only when we love the process of reading and writing will our vocabuary improve, but people want to learn words and hate reading or writing, Girls come your way only when you enjoy making yourself look good. But every one wants the opposite sex, but only some like the process of making themselves look good. In a train ride everyone rejoices when the destination is reached, practise also to love the complete ride. Start enjoying the seneries, the travel.

Don’t just enjoy the win enjoy all the things associated with a win,This will be my 1.

Finally, 2+1 might not always equal 3 because this stupid “=” is governed by time and the great god himself. If at all my math proves wrong in your life. You can still be happy that you fought for a goal which was all yours and you completely enjoyed the process of trying to achieve  it.